Life is just like time and it is the same for everyone. However, because of the differences in people's thinking, thinking, and attitudes, there are different situations in life. Some people live in poverty, some live in peace and tears, and some live in peace.
In the face of such a disheartening life, naturally, you will complain or complain. However, we may have conducted in-depth analysis and thinking. Why can people do well and you can't do it well? In many cases, we are too concerned about the wealth our own family or parents accumulate for us or the material basis for us to be too weak. We put all excuses and reasons on our parents. If it is just that, it is not an exaggeration, if we don’t Efforts lead to their lives as inferior to others or as parents' sins, so this is too bad.
The only thing that parents can give us is life. This is already the greatest gift of nature to us. We must not be grateful but we must ungrate us or return enmity. This is our greatest sin. In fact, we should be more aware of our own situation and the difference with others, and find the direction and goal of their own struggle, and continue to work hard and change. If you just complain or whisper, that may be the same for a lifetime.
People everywhere who are born humble, poor in their family, and suffer badly are all around us, but they can live free and happy, and how can you not? This is what we should think about. It should be clear: "There is no use for complaining, and everything is on your own." Because in this world we can only rely on ourselves, why? Because you depend on others, others cannot help or serve you forever. One day they will leave you. Because you depend on your parents, parents cannot always treat you as a child or leave you growing up. One day they will also leave you; because You rely on relatives and friends, relatives and friends will not be able to help you at all times, and one day they will be helpless.
Complaining is actually the biggest hindrance to us. If we start to feel disheartened and frustrated when we encounter a little unsatisfactory or dissatisfaction, the whole person will be so decadently destitute, then no one can save you, who Can not change you, and eventually everyone will really look down on you. We should always maintain a kind of sunny mindset and be confident in life. Because life would not have been so beautiful, then we have no reason not to overdo it. This kind of mentality is actually commendable, but many of us can't do it. Maybe they always think that this is artificial, that is, hypocritical, that is, to force themselves. However, we can carefully observe the people around us. How many of those who complained all day will only succeed? No. On the contrary, those who encounter difficulties and actively seek solutions are basically small accomplishments. This is the difference. This is what you have always wanted to understand. So, your life is not as good as others because you can't eat the pain that others can eat. You don't want to pay as much as others. You don't face or fear the difficulties and setbacks.
As the old saying goes, “If you’re suffering from hardships and suffering, and you’re the only person,” it’s telling us that in the face of life’s hardships and tiredness, we’ll only experience the hardships of the world and we’ll persist in our perseverance and perseverance. Character. What we need is actions rather than complaints and complaints. Only actions can solve problems. Complaints can only be regarded as indignant in their own incompetence. Because they do not have the ability or courage to overcome and change, they will resort to excuses and reasons to shirk. Only then will they continue to cherish grievances and eventually confuse themselves and thus consume the valuable time of their lives. To become a superior person, you must overcome the complaining mentality, eliminate grudges, and use a self-confidence that I can do, so that your life is different.
If you want to truly live a decent self, then you must face yourself all the time, face your own shortcomings and shortcomings, face up to the unpleasant part of your life, face your own actions and abilities, and then continue to practice Improve yourself in the process and thoroughly say goodbye to complaints, so that you will gain a new self, you will truly transform, brave out of the encirclement of life, step out of the restricted area of comfort and comfort zone, and boldly practice yourself The idea is to overcome all the difficulties in life, only to find a reason for success, not to make excuses for failure. Telling myself that excuses and reasons can only be a perfunctory and coping of others at certain times, but this is also not what I should because I think we should be bold, courageous, courageous, and responsible. Excuse, this vigorous and resolute style is our driving force and weapon. Whenever you encounter some failures or setbacks, you must be clear that you are incapable or insufficiently prepared. You are not aware of yourself or someone else is the first person to get acquainted. Instead of complaining about your fate injustice or complaining that you are not as good as others. This only determines one future achievement and gain between the first and second thoughts. Sometimes when you know where the roots are, you will provide lessons and warnings for your follow-up life. You know what you should try to overcome. What are the capabilities to improve?
Instead of using time to complain, it is better to leave this time for thinking, summing up and improving. This is because only by fully applying the time will we not have the time to cranky and will be able to motivate ourselves to work harder and be more aggressive. This intense and fulfilling life is what we must have. If you don’t have time to decadent, have no time to complain, and don’t have time to get bored, then you must be as good as others, and you will feel that you have changed a look. Then you Live a real self. Because each of us has three “I”—false self, self, and true self. Only by stimulating all of my potential and persevering efforts, will we discover the true self and find that we are also excellent. Potentiality, therefore, do not complain about yourself casually, just need to work hard to helplessness, and strive to move yourself on it, then you can have no regrets in life.
We come to this world, it seems to be to do something? Therefore, in our long and short life time, we really should make more efforts to complain less, constantly ringing the clarion call of our own to warn ourselves, and constantly motivate ourselves to complain that it is useless. It is indignation over his incompetence.
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