Life is not as good as it is, so we are always dissatisfied. People's satisfaction is divided into two types, one for oneself and one for the outside world. We can't control the outside world. The outside world often makes us unpleasant. If we don't catch the last train today, we block traffic in the morning when we go to work. These unpleasant outsiders will inevitably affect our own dissatisfaction. Is it natural for me? Life is not good, bad things all accounted for, is not it natural, why so many unsatisfactory?
At this time, people will have a feeling of self-complaining. When they talk about this self-complacement, they can temporarily put themselves in the realm of their own self, segregate the unpleasant facts with the outside world, and generate an emotional complexion. To put it simply, let the unlucky facts be converted into an inner emotion. Instead of considering the fact itself, let it be with emotions.
This can allow us to forget the facts for a while and experience a painful emotion. If you can overcome self and use strong inner strength to resolve this, then the person that ushered in is “the tomorrow when the sun is still rising”. However, some people will be immersed in a depressed state of emotions, and they will not extricate themselves.
This is a very dangerous situation. They will complain about grievances and they will also resent themselves. Under normal circumstances, people who have been in such complexes for a long time are not caused by just those unlucky things, but they have previously Having suffered great traumatic wounds and painful experiences for a long time, these unlucky things are merely an introduction. When they meet, they think of the painful experiences of the past. At this time, it is easy to fall into a spiritual crisis.
When people encounter these situations, the correct approach is to accept the facts and accept them. If past events have passed, let them be the past, say goodbye to the past, do a good job of the present, and do a good job right now. Things. Take it as a matter of course, for the sake of what you have done, the past cannot be changed, then change the present and the future.
At this time, some people will say that it is in such a depressed state. What should we do? What I want to say is that your downfall is a result of "thinking." Your focus is on thinking. If you want to convert "thinking" into "doing", then your attention will change. Then, you will change your current feelings, and enter another feeling. At this time, the downfall will be interrupted. You may be in another dimension and change yourself.
"Doing" means to do things. If you keep working, you will not have the opportunity or time to think about experiencing bad emotions. After a boy had lost his love, he was in deep pain. His parents advised him to find a job. He found a programmer's job. In order to get rid of the pain, he devoted himself wholeheartedly to his work. Resting, and later being appreciated by the boss, not only the salary increase, but also the head of the technical department. The boys in this real story are the examples of successful work that divert attention and get rid of the pain of losing romance. There are always many disappointments in people's life, but when they are unhappy, we should believe that any problem is a solution. Sometimes we change our minds and change one way.
Human life is actually a manifestation of energy. When this energy of ours is blocked in this way, we will change another way. When our energy is blocked in this time and space, and it is not open, we may change it. A place is new. Our unsatisfactory discomfort is that our life energy is not smooth, there is no free flow, and all we have to do is to meet the right people in search of the right place, so that we can smoothly.
We do not have the obligation or the means to satisfy everyone, but we should most satisfy ourselves and make ourselves happy. The road to happiness is also our journey of lifelong struggle. We must work hard to prove our strength and value. . Diligent and conscientious work will make us seldom fall into a spiritual crisis. It will make us a realist. Of course, it will also make us more successful.
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